Meeting someone from the internet for the first time - how can I control my jitters?

I really really really dig this girl, %26amp; I'm going to meet her in a few days. We'll have the day together, %26amp; I'm worried that I'll be so nervous that I'll make a fool out of myself %26amp; won't get to enjoy the day because of my jitters. How can I calm down???Meeting someone from the internet for the first time - how can I control my jitters?
Take a Xanax with a couple of hurricanes and a coffee. You'll be smooth as a cactus. Seriously, you'll be solid.Meeting someone from the internet for the first time - how can I control my jitters?
you have to just relax. she probably feels the same way so you be in control of the day and make her feel comfortable so that you guys can have a good time. i know its hard meeting someone for the first time cause you get nerves trust me my b/f now of 2 years i met him off myspace and i was pretty nerves myself so trust me she will be too and so just take that as an advantage and just show her a good time. i hope everything goes well, good luck.
wow... dude... your actually meeting some one from on the enternet.. how enteresting?!?!? never thought people could go that far now day's... but it's cool... i'd do the same thing.... it depend's on if i trust the person... yeah i'll be meeting this really nice guy who's from india.. in a month.. because the place that i am going to india... is where he live's... like around there... :D... well hay good luck... and let me know how it goes........ have a great day............











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be sincere and pray :=) really.
Imagine having sex with her the moment you see her... works everytime.
coffee lots of coffee
Take a pill to calm you down, which one I can't say, I'm sure there is one out there...
tell your self that you dont like her so you have nothing to worry about.


if you dont ';think'; you like her than you dont care if you make a fool of yourself.


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she probably wants to meet a calm and confident guy so be just that, oh and yourself of course!
Try to get your mind off yourself and how you feel, and concentrate on things you two can talk about. ask questions about her interests, hobbies, what kind of movies she likes. find out what interests you have in common. Also, decide how much money you want to spend for the day. Are you going to take her out to eat? Girls love to eat out. Have you talked to her to see where she would like to go? If she doesn't care, make plans ahead of time. check to see what is going on around town. ? Remember, she is nervous, too!!! have a great time. Remember to give her your best smile and have a good sense of humor. ask her questions about herself. That will show her you are interested in her. Good luck. Let your personality shine and it will turn out great.
dont wrry, just be u
You should relax and be yourself. I met my boyfriend by answering a question he posted on YA. He was apprehensive about meeting me also as well as he should have been. Meeting people on line can be scary so never throw caution to the wind if it seems forced listen to your instincts. Just so you can get an idea of a scary on line experience click on MAJJAS 360 page and read about his on line experience, otherwise have a great time.
when i go on first dates i think of them as just another person. If you still have the jitters you could talk to her just like you do over the internet. You should just be your self and if she doesn't like you for who you are then it is not ment to be. JUST BE YOUR SELF
You have placed too much importance on this meeting. The thing is you don't know this girl. She could be a total spaz in person. She might be a nice girl but not really what you are looking for. The chances of a great relationship coming from this meetings are slim. Walk into the day using reality as your guide instead of what you're hoping things are going to be like.


If you are nervous and jittery you'll make her that way.
You probably will be nervous, and possibly make a fool of yourself.. just let it go, everyone is nervous on a blind date.. he/she will understand
Your nervousness will be contagious. Too bad!





How do you expect someone else to like you if you don't like yourself. That IS why you are jittery. Cancel the date and start figuring out what needs to change for you to start enjoying your own self. Can you handle that? If so, you've got it made. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Knowing that she is, probably, just as nervous as you are might help.





Depending on how long you've chatted over the 'net, you might find that the two of you very quickly become comfortable with each other.
Make sure its an environment that your comfortable in....that might help a little. If you feel like things are getting out of hand b/c you're so nervous tell her that your so excited to finally be meeting that you cant control your nerves. Chances are she is nervous too! Good luck!
Tell her you are excited about the date, but you are a little nervous. Don't be all weird about it though and don't tell her right now. Tell her closer to the date. I bet she is too. She might make you feel better by expressing those same thoughts. It's understandable to feel that way. If she can't be understanding about that, then she isn't worth your time.
Take a chill pill dude, all you gotta do is be kind and courteous, bring her flowers and be a gentleman. Try to concentrate on pleasing her instead of thinking about your jitters. Goodluck, I think you'll be fine.
Just relax. Dont be nervous just remember how much you ';dig'; this girl and you should be feeling better. If you have a positive attitude going into a situation then you are most likely going to come out with a positive outcome. So dont stress about it. Be yourself and have fun.
Just let her do most of the talking and you'll be okay. I've done it before and that is really the only way to control your jitters-GOOD LUCK!!!





Hope you two hit it off!!! I have never met anyone from the net worth messing with but I have tried though.
Take deep breaths and dont drink coffee or any other caffine. If your anxiety is really bad go to the health store and buy some Melatonin.
Make your plans around something you enjoy doing. If she likes you as much as you like her, then everything else will fall into place. Ask questions about her and her family. Find out what else you two have in common. Go into the day thinking you will meet a new friend and leave it at that. If more progresses, great! If not, then it's not meant to be. Move onto to the next one.
Just relax, and be yourself dude... And don't set your expectations up so high that there is no way any human can live up to them.





You'll be fine. Now, go do something to get your mind involved, and off of meeting her.